{"id":4109,"date":"2011-05-04T10:01:16","date_gmt":"2011-05-04T14:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/?p=4109"},"modified":"2011-05-04T10:01:16","modified_gmt":"2011-05-04T14:01:16","slug":"phone-calls-that-take-you-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heidiannie.com\/?p=4109","title":{"rendered":"Phone calls that take you back-"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#160;<a href=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Adam-Jr-3-Pauline-1920.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"Adam Jr (3) Pauline 1920\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Adam Jr (3) Pauline 1920\" src=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Adam-Jr-3-Pauline-1920_thumb.png\" width=\"363\" height=\"472\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ha \u2013ha!&#160; Not this far back!&#160; My Uncle Adam and my mother in 1920.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I got a call asking about my mother\u2019s married status in <\/p>\n<p>1994.&#160; It was for an improperly filled out land deed transaction and<\/p>\n<p>the clerk just wanted to fill in the missing information.<\/p>\n<p>I gave her what she needed and the call was over in just a couple of <\/p>\n<p>minutes.&#160; But I have been skimming around in those years now- <\/p>\n<p>looking at the past.&#160; Rethinking and remembering.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Pauline-and-Ruthie-1935.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"Pauline and Ruthie 1935\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Pauline and Ruthie 1935\" src=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Pauline-and-Ruthie-1935_thumb.png\" width=\"366\" height=\"504\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Here she is again in 1935- about 17 years old.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>My parents anniversary is coming up on May 6th.&#160; When he died,<\/p>\n<p>they had been married for 32 years.&#160;&#160; She lived another 34 years as<\/p>\n<p>a widow- not interested in marrying again- she said there was no<\/p>\n<p>one else she could love like she did my father.<\/p>\n<p>&#160;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Mommy-and-Daddy.jpeg.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"Mommy and Daddy.jpeg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Mommy and Daddy.jpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/heidiannie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Mommy-and-Daddy.jpeg_thumb.jpg\" width=\"390\" height=\"533\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>And here they are- she is about 32 here- so around-<\/em>&#160; I don\u2019t know-<\/p>\n<p>my brain isn\u2019t up to math today.<\/p>\n<p>But there they are- in love- facing life and death together.<\/p>\n<p>I miss my parents.<\/p>\n<p>They were brave and beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>They lived through tumultuous times and survived.<\/p>\n<p>They loved and lost and won and gave their children<\/p>\n<p>a firm base to grow upon.<\/p>\n<p>And now I\u2019M Grandma.<\/p>\n<p>Funny- I still feel like a little girl.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#160; Ha \u2013ha!&#160; Not this far back!&#160; My Uncle Adam and my mother in 1920. 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